\u201cI don\u2019t need a doula, I\u2019m getting an epidural.\u201d I can\u2019t tell you how many times I\u2019ve heard that, and I\u2019ve had to bite my tongue. An epidural is not suddenly going to make this an easy DIY experience.\u00a0<\/em>Let\u2019s get real here for a few minutes. Don\u2019t worry I am not going to talk you out of your epidural, just going to educate you so that you don\u2019t walk into this blindly.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Pain Coping<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Nobody signs up for a natural birth because they just love the idea of being in pain. You can read that again. You don’t get a medal for having a natural birth. Birth is birth. They do it because, in a non-medicated birth, hormones flood your body making you capable of withstanding the immense pain. Sometimes it’s even enjoyable to the point of euphoria and a feeling of being high. In the case of an epidural, your medication blocks both pain and pleasure hormones. With pain being the stronger of the two, sometimes that\u2019s all you\u2019re left with and you feel the pain without the endorphins to help you cope. You\u2019re typically confined to a bed to be monitored properly, thus reducing many natural pain coping measures. An epidural doula can help. She knows how to get you through the remaining pain. There are pressure points, massage techniques, essential oils, etc that she is trained to use effectively for pain reduction in such times. And that\u2019s just if you decide to get a \u2018parking lot epidural\u2019. Deciding to naturally cope through labor as long as you can, has been shown to help shorten labors. Have an epidural doula by your side to get you through the toughest part, and she knows the best time to opt in for the epidural for maximum effect.<\/p>\n

Relaxation<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Many moms report that after getting an epidural even though their pain went WAY down their anxiety went WAY up. Someone close to you can help somewhat with this just by being by your side, but epidural doulas are trained in relaxation techniques and are some of the most comforting people in the least annoying way. They are going to help by calming your fears – they\u2019ve seen this before many many times! They are going to help by reminding you who you are and why you\u2019re doing this (There\u2019s a baby at the end of this tunnel!) And they can even take your mind off of it by creating beautiful imagery with their words. Giving you tasks relevant to you can really help anxiety; for one woman, singing hymns got her through labor beautifully! Once relaxed, most women dilate much faster -if you\u2019re anxious, this is going to be a long labor.<\/p>\n

Breastfeeding<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Although there are minimal to no adverse effect on babies with an epidural, there has been evidence that babies born via epidural are less likely to breastfeed than those born in unmedicated labors. The good news is that moms with (epidural) doulas are much more likely to succeed in breastfeeding than moms without doulas! If you plan on breastfeeding and getting an epidural, hedge your bets and hire an epidural doula. She knows how to help you and baby get a good latch, and she is there for advice and education on your breastfeeding journey.<\/p>\n

Your Birth Plan<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Even though you will be awake, you won\u2019t feel quite yourself in an epidural (unless you\u2019re choosing to nap, hooray!). Many moms report grogginess, forgetfulness, and feeling \u2018out of it\u2019. If you have a birth plan with instructions regarding the baby following birth, or your body it\u2019s important to have an epidural doula there. Examples include opting out of an unnecessary episiotomy, delayed cord clamping, not washing the vernix off of your baby, and many other important options that are standard procedures, and doctors will not usually remember to ask about. A dad\/partner or friend is emotionally involved, and doesn’t always know or see what’s happening and therefore not often the best advocate for your birth plan when the moment arises. The doula will not speak on your behalf but will remind you, or ask you what you want when the doctor is present. The doula will pause the caregiver from performing any actions until they have your consent. That alone makes an epidural doula invaluable.<\/p>\n

Prenatal & Postpartum<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Yes, even epidural doulas will be a phone call away during pregnancy or postnatally. Some epidural doulas (like myself) will attend a prenatal doctor\u2019s appointment with you to help facilitate communication, ask the right questions, and receive truthful answers. An epidural doula will also check up on you postpartum. An epidural is not easy to heal from, and because it interrupts the body\u2019s natural process of carefully cascading hormones, sometimes things go awry afterward. Having someone watching over you that knows what to look for, how to help, and who to recommend, is a tremendous lifesaver.<\/p>\n

Hey mom, whatever you choose, an epidural in the hospital, un-medicated in the woods, or anything in between, arm yourself in education and don\u2019t be ashamed of your choice. This birth is for you and baby, no one else. Make the best decisions for the two of you, but however your birth – I hope you choose a doula. A birth team doesn\u2019t make you weak, it makes you smart. Wherever you decide to birth, however, you decide to birth, let\u2019s make this birth glorious.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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