My decision to have a home birth wasn’t made lightly. I had prayed about it for months, searched around, and interviewed several midwives in the Kansas City area. I sought wisdom from my husband and carefully considered the details. I believed deeply that God had designed my body to bring new life into the world, and I wanted to honor that design in the most natural and intimate way possible. I also wanted to create an environment that was peaceful, familiar, and filled with love.
From the moment I met with Gloria and Beka, I knew this decision was the right one. Their care was exceptional and personalized in a way that truly made me feel heard, valued, and supported. The midwives didn’t just provide medical care—they offered emotional and spiritual support that made me feel safe and empowered throughout my entire pregnancy. Their focus was on not just my physical health, but my mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being as well. I felt reassured in knowing that these women were experienced and deeply committed to providing the highest level of care, no matter the circumstances.
Exceptional Prenatal Care: Holistic and Comprehensive
Throughout my pregnancy, our midwives went above and beyond in their care. They didn’t just see me for a few quick appointments—they truly got to know me, listened to my concerns, and respected my desires for my birth experience. Each prenatal visit was filled with warmth and attention. A midwife would carefully check my vital signs, listen to my baby’s heartbeat, and monitor my health in a thorough but unhurried way. What I appreciated most was the time they took to educate me about the birthing process, offer holistic care, and address any questions I had. They provided nutritional advice, shared helpful resources about natural childbirth, and offered emotional support during the inevitable ups and downs of pregnancy. Their care was truly comprehensive, and it felt like they were partners in this sacred journey—not just medical providers. They were with me every step of the way, praying for me, guiding me, and reminding me that God was present in every aspect of this process. There was an undeniable peace in knowing that I was in good hands. Our midwives provided regular check-ins, both physically and emotionally. They were available to answer questions between appointments, always offering reassurance, advice, and support. Their gentle presence allowed me to stay calm, trusting that they would be there to support me, no matter what.
A Prayerful and Peaceful Environment
As I began to feel the first signs of labor, there was a sense of calm that settled over me. The house had been prepared with soft lighting, calming music, and gentle scents. But more than that, the atmosphere was filled with prayer. My husband and I prayed together often throughout my pregnancy, asking for God’s protection and guidance. I knew this was a sacred moment, and I wanted to invite God into every part of it. As my contractions started to intensify, I held onto my faith and reminded myself of the truth in Isaiah 40:29, which says, “He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.” I whispered this verse to myself, leaning on God’s promise that He would give me the strength I needed. The contractions came and went, and although they were intense, I trusted God would carry me through each one. Gloria and Beka checked on me periodically, ensuring everything was progressing smoothly, but there was no rush. They reassured me that I could take things at my own pace, just as I had always desired. Both had a calm presence, helping me trust that my body knew what it was doing. I was also aware of my doula, who gently guided me with soothing words, offering encouragement, and helping me change positions to ease the intensity of the contractions. In the midst of it all, I felt God’s peace, knowing that this moment, though challenging, was part of His beautiful plan for my family.
The Moment of Birth: A Gift from God
Then, finally, it was time. As the baby began to make its descent, I could feel a rush of excitement and anticipation, but also a deep sense of awe. I knew this moment was sacred. This was not just the birth of a child—it was a testament to the miracle of life that only God could create. I felt His presence surrounding me, guiding me through the final moments. When my baby was finally born, I was overwhelmed with relief. There was a brief scare as our son was unresponsive, but the midwives were calm and collected. After a few moments, my son was able to breathe. As Gloria placed my son on my chest, I could only think, “Thank You, God.” There, in the peace of my home, with my husband beside me, our baby in my arms, and the love of our birthing team surrounding us, I could feel God’s goodness. It was a sacred moment—a gift, a blessing.
A New Beginning in Christ
In the hours that followed, as we settled into our new rhythm as a family of four, I felt a deep sense of peace. I held my son close, thanking God for this miracle of life. I thought about the verses from Psalm 127:3: “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him.” I had trusted God throughout my pregnancy, and He had delivered on His promises in the most beautiful way. This homebirth wasn’t just a physical journey—it was a spiritual one. A moment where I was reminded that God’s presence is with us always, especially in the most intimate, vulnerable, and sacred moments of our lives. And as I held my newborn child, I felt God’s love in a way I never had before, knowing that He was with us every step of the way.
